Boyfriend's Mother is Dying of Cancer
I was just looking for some advice. My boyfriend of 2 years mother was diagnosed with cancer last month. She has had several surgeries this month, but and things have not been looking good. We were told today that the doctor said they will make her comfortable, but that she will not recover from this. My boyfriend does not accept this, he is sure that she will get better and make it through. I believe in miracles, but I also have to be realistic and realize that the doctor is most likely correct. Most of his family is trying to prepare, making preliminary arrangements and so forth, but he and his father refuse to believe that it is necessary.
I understand that they are in denial, but can anyone offer any advice on dealing with this situation? I am of course here for them no matter what, but I feel like he should begin to prepare himself for what is going to happen. I don't feel like there is anything I can say or do to make him feel better or to help him cope with this.
Any help would be greatly apprecited. Thank you!