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  • Aug 24, 2007, 08:04 AM
    aguilar64
    Waiting for my love
    Me and my girlfriend are in love I knew it whenever she took my bi-polar disease and offered any help she says it was when we first met but anyway. The problem is that she wants to wait until she is married and I respect that the only problem is that I have urges and she used to fulfill them by making out and deep kissing now I have nothing. She went to band camp and came back tired and her appetite for that was low that was two weeks ago. I am starting to wonder if I should ask her for a break and go and "sow my wild oats" if you will or should I Just wait
  • Aug 24, 2007, 08:36 AM
    talaniman
    What's more important fulfilling your urges, or waiting for your g/f? Either way you have a choice to make. If you cannot honestly discuss this with her, then there isn't much of a relationship to begin with.
  • Aug 24, 2007, 08:40 AM
    SAB123
    Question, do you truly love your girlfriend... if so why would you riun something so special just to sow your wild oats?
  • Aug 24, 2007, 08:41 AM
    aguilar64
    I have talked to her about it but she get all angry about it saying that's all I want. I should have also mention that I have already bought her a promise ring, but do not know when to give it to her
  • Aug 24, 2007, 08:43 AM
    SAB123
    May I ask how old you two are.
  • Aug 24, 2007, 08:51 AM
    nicespringgirl
    You are quiet shallow. Period. Your girlfriend decides to wait until marriage, it's a good thing. And you are looking for a way to become a male stripper? ( I saw your other posts)Have you talked to your girlfriend about it?
    What do you want in your life? I doubt if she will say yes to you of becoming a male stripper!

    PS. You call it"waiting for your love", do you love her?
  • Aug 24, 2007, 09:30 AM
    aguilar64
    Okay hold on I am 18 and not shallow I was just curious about the male stripper thing no I do not want to be a male stripper I am going to school to be in the medical field so I can provide for my future family. I have never ever made her do anything she does not want to do I always respect her wishes she knows about this and wanted your advice so please help.
  • Aug 24, 2007, 11:07 AM
    talaniman
    In that case you wait. Solve your other problems, as I too have read your other posts. And if she is reading this also, I guess she know about the ring now too.
  • Aug 24, 2007, 12:44 PM
    nicespringgirl
    Yes, you must wait. You must finish pre-med in undergraduate school first, since you are going to medical field, hopefully.U have a lot to do! A LOT!
    You are 18 year-old, too early to get married, keep your ring and reconsider your personal desire please.
  • Aug 24, 2007, 02:54 PM
    margarita_momma
    Okay, if you really love this girl and you want to be with her, then don't push her. It is her personal decision to save herself. May I ask how long you two have been together?

    Honestly... If you are thinking of running out and getting her jollies from someone else, then you don't love her. You should be happy you actually found a girl with morals.

    Either wait for her or break it off and go and get what you want. That is your decision alone.

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