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  • Aug 22, 2007, 11:18 AM
    survivor987
    I'm in love my step-sister
    Hi I'm survivor987 (dan)

    Well I'm going to get down to the point. My dad and my step mum got married a few months ago and they have been together for about 3 years and I have known my step-sister since then and I have always had a crush on her and I love her so much, I masturbate over her sometimes and sometimes see her getting changed (but I don't think she minds TOO much). And anyway I really want to know is this wrong? and how do I tackle this problem:confused: , if anyone has any advice please please please reply!! Thanks
  • Aug 22, 2007, 11:36 AM
    jetta3
    I have heard of a few cases and one of my relative had a child and got married. I guess it happens when U live in the same roof. My suggestion would be to discuss this with your parents before it goes out off hand.
  • Aug 22, 2007, 12:08 PM
    Dennis777
    Hello Dan.

    Its not legally wrong bur it is morally wrong for you to be with your step sister. Besides think of how much better life would be if you had her as a life long friend to talk with when you needed her. If you get together and it doesn't work out you loose not only a friend you loose part of your family.

    Find a nice Girl you can be with. BTW many young Men have a fantasy about their step sisters so don't think your alone, Just don't act on it.

    Dennis777
  • Aug 22, 2007, 12:25 PM
    ScottGem
    You are not blood relatives so there is no incest involved. However, without knowing your ages, there might be other legal issues. There would definitely be raised eyebrows over it, if you pursued a relationship.

    However, if you wait until you are both 18, and then decide to pursue a relationship, you could do it.
  • Aug 22, 2007, 01:07 PM
    survivor987
    [QUOTE=ScottGem] without knowing your ages, there might be other legal issues. There would definitely be raised eyebrows over it, if you pursued a relationship. QUOTE]


    By the way I am 15 and she is 14, just younger by a few months
  • Aug 22, 2007, 06:55 PM
    talaniman
    Attractions are natural, but don't get carried away with your feelings, And let her have some privacy, or you may be seen as a freaky little pervert.
  • Aug 22, 2007, 07:31 PM
    ScottGem
    Then at that age, you need to cool it. You have raging hormones and you need to get them under control. I wouldn't even express your feelings to her.
  • Aug 22, 2007, 07:36 PM
    Homegirl 50
    This is not love but hormones. That is just not cool.
  • Aug 23, 2007, 06:54 AM
    junsmai
    Hey, I don't see anything wrong. If you are not related by blood then why not? You should wait to see if she thinks you are cute, if she doesn't then your best bet is to stay away and not pursue anything. You are 15 years old, don't get stuck on one girl. Date and you will meets a ton of girls. Best of luck
  • Aug 23, 2007, 08:25 PM
    nicespringgirl
    Don't be so selfish, how would your parents feel about it!
    Relatives?
    They will laugh at your family and yourself... I understand it's not other's business and live your life your way, but... ur parents will suffer...
    Have you talked to them about it? Ur action is morally wrong. Wake up now!
    So, I advise you move on and seek someone else.

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