Me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up.We have one child togather.I have been so upset over it.I am in virginia now,but we lived in Ohio.He is asking me to come back.He is telling me its just to see our child.but he knows he will be seeing me everyday.Before I left he said he wanted to work things out.Now he is saying he does not know.And he also said he does not see us getting back getting.But lately I been acting like everything is fine.now I been acting fine about it and not crying.He seems more interested in talking to me now that I am acting like everything is OK.Before he was hardly calling me, and now I am acting like I am OK he called me 3 times the other day.I don't know what to do.I still love him so I think I should go back if there is even a chance for us to work things out.But he also said we could see how things go.I don't know I am so confused.I would like anyone's advice because I don't know what to do.:(

Hi dear.

I wish it were possible to say that if you get together all will be fine, but only you can determine this by making a choice.

Love and life has no guarantee - there is no template to go by.

Maybe he has had time to think things over and wants to try, but as I said, there is no way he, or you can guarantee this. It depends on how you two communicate, mature together and how you both feel as parents.

Ask yourself, are you ready to give up what you have now to try again, and if yes, then try it - it might work.

Good luck dear, and keep us posted.

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