Hiya, I'm 23 and I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and recently I have not wanted sex,, at all! I find the whole thing annoying! And the thought of it doesn't really repulse me, but it annoys me and I don't feel excited by the thought at all, its really annoyin me, I'm overweight by a few stone, have sstarted a stressful job and we still live with my parents, yet none of these things would stop me before! We used to enjoy a very healthy sex life. Any body got the same thing or got ne advice?

Thanks

Xx

Its called boredom.

It sounds like you have a lot going on in your life.

Did you recently put on the weight? Do you not feel as good about yourself as you used to? Is your boyfriend still romancing you and making you feel special? For a woman the mind is the biggest and strongest sex organ. When woman have a lot going on and are stressed and don't feel good about themselves its naturally to shut down to sex.

Hello.

First have a good check up and make sure your not having medical problems. Many times blood pressor from the stress will drop your sex drive. There are many other things medically that can also drop the sex drive. Have you started any new meds, They also can drop your sex drive.

Next its time to bring back the spark. It could be as simple as your in a rut. Start doing all the little things you did for each other when you met. Start wearing sexy or no underwear. Treat yourself to a day at a spa. The key is let yourself be sexy and you will feel sexy.

Dennis777

I used to be like that too until my hub and I started experimenting. That is when he found my "buttons" and WHOA! Experiment around... work yourself up to the event and make sure kids and other distractions aren't an issue.