Anyone ever dated (or been) someone who'd had a violent childood?
My good friend is now dating a girl who's dad was an alcoholic who roughed her up/grabbed her when he was drunk... and after AA he became a new guy... but the scars are still there he says - even though he lives down the street and they go to church on Sunday...
He says she gets depressed (takes anti-depressants) and feels he is judging her too much sometimes for her actions. He says he just gives opinions and now is walking on egg shells...
Can she rise from this? They are quite a couple when happy?
I told him to be himself and take his time.
I just don't know if these things work out and how - and what the mentality/pathology of a woman with a couple years (ages 3-4-or 5?) like that in her past...
Hmmmmmmm.
Been on either side?