Hey, my name is kate & I'm 15. Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year, and he wants to have sex. I think I'm ready but I'm just a little bit scared since it's the first time. I'm rele afraid it will hurt and I won't like it. I thought it was supposed to feel good and my friends tell me it will probably hurt me the first time. Is that true, and how can I get it to not hurt as much?

Not a good idea. You could get your boyfriend in trouble.

He wants to have sex, but you aren't ready. You also are not of age to consent, so he could be arrested for statutory rape.

Wait a little longer. You have the rest of your life.

I think you should wait until you know for sure what you want don't let your boyfriend put any pressure on you. If he truly loves you then he will wait how ever long it takes for you to be comfortable with the situation. Also don't be peer presured, just because your friends have done it don't think you have to wait until you know for sure, trust me.

If you are unsure, then you are not ready. And, yes, most likely it will hurt the first few times.

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Originally Posted by kateruckert

hey, my name is kate & im 15. me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year, and he wants to have sex. i think im ready but im just a little bit scared since its the first time. im rele afraid it will hurt and i wont like it. i thought it was supposed to feel good and my friends tell me it will probably hurt me the first time. Is that true, and how can i get it to not hurt as much?

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Please please please be careful! Even if you love each other you may feel differently if you have/abort/adopt a child at this age. And some STD's are permanent.