I'm in a loving relationship with my partner of 3 yrs. We had a 2 yr old daughter, but recently I've started to think about his brother. My partner is 7 yrs older than myself but his brother is a yr older. The last time we made love all I could think about was his brother and not him. Is this normal to think about other people, but is it weird that it is his brother I'm conffused please help.

mammazeta :confused: :o

I don't think there's anything wrong with a fantasy like that. Three years is quite a long time, and I personally don't see anything wrong with that, as long as you can still think of your partner and feel the same love for him that you did before. As long as you don't act upon those thoughts, that is... because that's a whole nother discussion.

Oh no I would never act upon this I love his family too much to hurt them as well as my partner. Its just really weird that his brother comes into my head and not anyone else, as long as people don't think I'm sick in the head to think of this then that's OK my mind is at rest thanks

Well, I wouldn't say I speak for everyone. I know that I personally wouldn't be bothered by it. People will fantasize about things. Some people may think that's wrong, but I think it's natural.