Me and my boy firend have been dating for very close to 2 years. When we were together some times we got along, but then after a while it was like we were roommates not boy friend and girl friend living together. Then it became to where we would fight almost every day and I just wanted to leave. Then he kicked me out a couple of days ago. Now that I'm not with him, I miss him very much :( , I know I shouldn't go back to him cause we were putting each other through hell! A part of me doesn't want to go back, but another part of me wants to go back to him. I know it's best for the both of us, but I miss him so much, so how do I get through this ?

Hello Innocent,

You are experiencing very natural emotions.

You have been together for quite a while and irrespective of the problems you have had recently which ended in your leaving, or having to leave, it is quite normal for you to be feeling the way you do.

This is a new beginning to your life, and you are confused and probably concerned about the future.

Although you may not think so at the moment, believe me it will pass and as you get on with your life these feelings will diminish and eventually disappear.

Try to get your mind on other things and go to places you and he never went to. Going to places where you both went are likely to serve as a reminder of him.

You have broken up now and although it was painful for you, from what you say it is for the best. If it did not happen now, I feel your relationship would have ended sooner or later.

Concentrate on yourself and what you want for the future.

The very best of luck.

Cy
(Poseidon)