Borrowing from 401k due to job loss
My husband just lost his job. We are dependent on his income, I work, but only make about 1/3 what he makes. He is 56 and I am 52. We are looking at a distribution from his 401k to pay off credit cards, but that is all we can pay off. We also have a mortgage which we cannot afford on only my income, a motor home and a car that have balances. If we pay the credit cards, we only have the 3 bills to manage or liquidate. We figure the house would be the easiest to sell, the car we would lose too much and the motor home would be hard to sell quickly enough. We are struggling with putting the money aside to pay the home car and motor home (only for a while until it runs out) and call the other creditors which total 9 or pay the 9 and deal with the 3 major ones.
The real question, is it logical to use the 401k lump distribution in this case? We think there is no 10% penalty because he is 56, is that true? Plus, because of bad financial decisions along with bad luck, our credit cards are at 28% so we would love to get rid of them all. Is it possible to recover from this mess? The total distribution plus the wages he has earned up to this point will just about equal his one year salary.