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  • Aug 20, 2007, 12:27 PM
    JessicaN
    My Husband
    My husband has been separated from his ex-girlfriend of 6 years, 3 years before he met me. He has 2 boys with her but the oldest boy isn't his but he signed the birth certificate. He told me that when they were together they went through hell, arguing and fighting and stuff. When we got together he told me he wanted her to leave but he didn't want his 2 boys to leave. Then yesterday he told me that he didn't want her to leave because there was feelings involved. Now after he told me that stuff is adding up to me and I feel like he cared for her more than me now because when we argue he always tells me to leave but he didn't want her to leave!! I don't know what to do or believe because all I feel like is that he cared for her more than what he cares for me but he said well I married you that should tell you something. Well it does it tells me that he cared for her as much as he cares for me because she had a ring on her finger too. I don't know what to do or what to believe because he lyed to me!!
  • Aug 20, 2007, 01:58 PM
    Bluerose
    JessicaN,

    Sorry, it might just be me but I don't understand what you are asking exactly.
  • Aug 20, 2007, 02:01 PM
    GoldieMae
    I wouldn't take words expressed in anger at face value. He could have told her to leave a million times when they fought.

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