Originally Posted by Andra11743
i am a twentysix year old, female, international student. i moved into a house after my male friend who had a fifty something year old roomate. when i was moving in, all of us including landlord agreed that i will be taking the house over and will bring in a new female roomate. this old male roomate has been giving problem to my friend about moving out since christmas but since he verbaly agreed to move out infront of everyone, we all thought it should be ok. i found a girl who should move in september first. she already paid deposit and gave a notice at her old place. i informed my current roomate and everything was fine till now. he told me he is not moving out as his "new place fell throught" it's the same game as always to him. i told him she already paid but he just start yelling at me that if i don't leave him alone he will do something to my stuff and car. i am affraid of him now and since he is all the time glued to the couch in the livingroom, i feel that i can't even come out of my room. i feel very uncomfortable with him in the first place especially now after he has made those threats.
i told my ladlord about it and he agreed that he has to go. in addition to that, i told him what he already knew, my roomate is a big time drug user.
i would like to get along with him and just deal as two adults but obviously that's not possible as he is strictly refusing to even talk about it. he has been recently arrested and spent week in jail for driving under influence and drugs. he gets so bad that it's absolutely normal that he starts to cook and leaves the house for couple days or falls asleep. one time he almost burned the house down.
if anyone could give me any advise on how to get rid of him as fast as possible i wolud really appreciate it. please help!