Originally Posted by angiegirl88
well i've been married for about a year, and of course im happy with my husband and son, i hav one problem that bothers me. since about a month or so after we got married, my husband doesnt really kiss m anymore. before, we used to kiss and make out all the time, but not anymore. the only way he'll kiss me is if i ask for one and he just gives me a cheap little peck. i mean, im not asking for a big sloppy one, but a nice romantic kiss evry now and then would be nice. he'll probably give me a good kiss like once a month. i can probably count the times he's kissed me. i've talked to him about it, and he said that maybe if i wouldn't try to kiss him so much, then that would give him a chance to kiss me on his own. so i stopped kissing him, i would only give him a kiss when leaving to work and before going to sleep. i stayed like that for the past 2-3 months, and nothing. and i bring it up he just says that there is no specific reason. that's what i dont get. if there's no specific reason, then why won't he kiss me? now when i try explaning how i feel, he just ignores me and says that him not kissing me isnt the end of the world. that gets me upset and then we either end up arguing or he just ignores and give me the "silent treatment", i know, very childish of him. its not that he's not romantic with me at all, because yeah he hugs me and he'll say " i love u" every once in a while, but its the kissing part that bothers me. i dont know if to leave it alone and see what happens or to keep trying to talk to him. if there's anyone who can relateor even just give some advice, pleas help...
