broke up with a guy I was going out with for about 1yr and 4months, for the past 4 months now he hasn't even bothered to call, he only called about 2 days after the breakup but I didn't pick and he didn't call again instead he was calling some of my close friends to justify his actions. Was just wandering,if he really liked me y hasn't he called me, has he moved on? should I call him and arrange for us to see and settle it (cus I breakup with him over the phone) just to set the records straight even if we may nt come back 2geda.just to let him know the real reason y I broke up with him?or I shouldn't just boda and move on because if he actually liked me he would have called me again but he neva did and I don't think he will.he is too much of a proud person.my friends are saying I shouldn't call that it will make mi know how much he values mi.still like him very much. Give me a good advice. Thanks

confused[QUOTE=a1b2]broke up with a guy I was going out with for about 1yr and 4months, for the past 4 months now he hasn't even bothered to call, he only called about 2 days after the breakup but I didn't pick and he didn't call again instead he was calling some of my close friends to justify his actions. Was just wandering,if he really liked me y hasn't he called me, has he moved on? should I call him and arrange for us to see and settle it (cus I breakup with him over the phone) just to set the records straight even if we may nt come back 2geda.just to let him know the real reason y I broke up with him?or I shouldn't just boda and move on because if he actually liked me he would have called me again but he neva did and I don't think he will.he is too much of a proud person.my friends are saying I shouldn't call that it will make mi know how much he values mi.still like him very much. Give me a good advice. Thanks.I`ll need answers mostly from guys hopefully they will understand a guy`s mind beta.bt reasonable answers from girls are also welcomed.no hard felings.thanks.need as much answers I can get

It's been 4 months. It sounds as if he has moved on and so should you.

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Originally Posted by a1b2

broke up with a guy i was going out with for about 1yr and 4months, for the past 4 months now he hasnt even bothered to call, he only called about 2 days after the breakup but i didnt pick and he didnt call again instead he was calling some of my close friends to justify his actions. was just wandering,if he really liked me y hasnt he called me,?has he moved on?,should i call him and arrange for us to see and settle it (cus i breakup with him over the phone) just to set the the records straight even if we may nt come back 2geda.just to let him know the real reason y i broke up with him?or i shouldnt just boda and move on cus if he actually liked me he would have called me again but he neva did and i dont think he will.he is too much of a proud person.my friends are saying i shouldnt call that it will make mi know how much he values mi.still like him very much. give me a gud advice. thanks.i`ll need answers mostly from guys hopefully they will understand a guy`s mind beta.bt reasonable answers from girls are also welcomed.no hard felings.thanks.need as much answers i can get.thanks

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He hasn't called you because he has moved on. No you should not call him there is nothing to settle because he has moved on. No do not contact him it has been 4 months he has probably made his peace with this relationship and so should you. Therefore, he has moved on and so should you.

You dumped hm why would he call you, if you want him back you have to call himm..

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Originally Posted by mckenzie134

You dumped hm why would he call you, if you want him back you have to call himm..

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thanks a lot,relly appreciate your taking out time to reply me but considering all what I said he did ,won't it be like being the fool by calln besides I'm a girl.dont you think that if he really liked me he would have called?and maybe you should read the 2nd question I posted,that will explain the circumstances that surrounded the breakup