So I like this girl in one of my classes and she is really cute but I don't know how to talk to her since I am really shy and insecure. She is even in my lab group so its like the perfect situation to talk to her but I am to shy to actually talk to her how should I do it??

Getting over being shy just takes practice. If you don't just try to communicate, you will never know what the outcome will be.

Okay, so you are in the lab group together. So, maybe there is something in lab that you don't know the answer to and that she might. That's an opener right there. It could be about anything concerning what you do in lab. Ask her a question that she might know the answer to. If she is correct, then that makes her feel good and you have also just "opened up the door" to communication.

Be yourself. Be confident, relax, hold your head high, back straight, posture man! Posture is important. The mousy guy who sits in a corner with his head down and his back slouched isn't going to get noticed.
Be honest, sincere, and be brave!
Make sure you be tactful as well though
Look people in the eyes.

The secret is, you can't care too much. Doing this keeps you from being yourself. Go in there with a "can't care attitude" and believe in yourself. People are attracted to confidence. Always remember, you are no different from anyone else.

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Originally Posted by jman18

so i like this girl in one of my classes and she is really cute but i dont know how to talk to her since i am really shy and insecure. she is even in my lab group so its like the perfect situation to talk to her but i am to shy to actually talk to her how should i do it??????

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First go up to her and ask her if she wants to go on just a group date with all of your friends and some of hers. If you have fun! Then ask her on a real date. But the problem with the shyness,uhm just try to be yourself just go ip to her. And be like HEY SO AND SO I was kind of wondering if you would like to come and hang out with some of my friends! Hope it helps your friend vennyismybabi200

Since the original question was posted on August 19, 2007 at 11:05 P.M. I would hope that the jman18 has already spoken with her and maybe even asked her out.

It takes awhile to get used to how to use this site. In this case, especially about checking when some posts have been posted.

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Originally Posted by jman18

so i like this girl in one of my classes and she is really cute but i dont know how to talk to her since i am really shy and insecure. she is even in my lab group so its like the perfect situation to talk to her but i am to shy to actually talk to her how should i do it??????

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I think you should because I went through the same thing but my friend forced me but you can do it with OUT anyone forcing you.