I'm 17 and I've never had a girlfriend. I ve also never had any contact with a girl I mean I've never kissed,held hands or hug or anything. I've seen the way the girls look at me as if they have disgust in there eyes and I'm worryed if any woman will ever see me differently. I have no idea what to do .

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Originally Posted by undisclosed

im 17 and ive never had a girlfriend. i ve also never had any contact with a girl i mean ive never kissed,held hands or hug or anything. ive seen the way the girls look at me as if they have disgust in there eyes and im worryed if any woman will ever see me differently. i have no idea what to do .

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Well how about trying to ask someone out

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Originally Posted by undisclosed

im 17 and ive never had a girlfriend. i ve also never had any contact with a girl i mean ive never kissed,held hands or hug or anything. ive seen the way the girls look at me as if they have disgust in there eyes and im worryed if any woman will ever see me differently. i have no idea what to do .

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Well I think your problem is that you don't have confidence. If you show confidence then maybe you'll find a girl. You should start talking to girls. If you have a good personality you shouldn't worry. The right girl will come to you in time.

Don't beat yourself up.. I'm sure no girl is really 'disgusted' at the sight of you! If they were to have an expression which suggested this then they probably weren't worth knowing anyway!
There are so many girls out there with different interests and preferences I'm sure in time with a more confident and positive attitude/manner you'll catch someone's eye for all the right reasons! ;)

Like the old saying goes there is someone for every one.
Don't be so worried that you haven't yet, A lot of guys and girls don't come out of their shell until later, sometimes in their 20s. I bet you are shy right?
Maybe if you stop worring it will happen sooner.
Start by just opening up more talking to girls, don't see them as a potintual girl you could get in the sack but a friend and talk like you would a friend.
If not at school join other social groups.
A youth group. What are your interest? Hobies? In other words put yourself out there.
Show off your fun side, your intellectual side, be yourself.
Don't worry she will come along, but if your to shy to grab the opportunity it may slip by.
And the only way to get out of being shy is practice!

You I'm shy only when I ask her out I no lots of girls and I talk to them a lot but it seems they like beening friends with me but when the next step comes up they say no and never talk to me ever again