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  • Aug 18, 2007, 07:34 PM
    jeremy4719
    Hidden interest?
    I've been out of my major relationship a week, but am pushing myself to move on... I asked out this woman that has been friendly to me for a while... She was really nice on the phone and said she has a boyfriend... She asked what I wanted to ask her... I said I wanted to take her out to dinner... She gigled and said yeah uhhmmm Iiii uhhhhmmmm yeah I've got a boyfriend, but maybe we can get ice cream sometime? I told her if she was ever single to let me know.. She said I definitely will... SOooooo my question to you ladies is, is this woman showing signs of interest in me (even though she is taken)?
  • Aug 18, 2007, 08:02 PM
    lmnotok
    My goodness, don't expect anything from this woman. Every woman would answer the same thing to a guy (if she is a nice person).

    And I bet you don't want to start a fight with her boyfriend, right?
  • Aug 18, 2007, 08:04 PM
    GlindaofOz
    She sounds like she was definitely flattered which is always a good sign. Keep it up you got to hit a single broad soon enough!

    Good job for pushing on by the way
  • Aug 19, 2007, 04:44 PM
    talaniman
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    is this woman showing signs of interest in me (even though she is taken)?
    NO!! She did try to spare your feelings though. I think your playing with fire, being so soon out of a relationship with your fiancée.
  • Aug 19, 2007, 07:35 PM
    mooneyes412
    Yeah, ummm don't read to far into that. If she was interested she would have said yes regardless of the boyfriend.
  • Aug 19, 2007, 07:56 PM
    Treeny
    Hmm it depends, she may have been sparing your feelings but you said she has been friendly with you for sometime.
    Maybe she is an honest girl that likes you but wants to keep you on the back burner for a bit
    I would leave it at that and wait to see how things pan out.
    Don't call her again that is the worst thing you could do, the ball is in her court.
  • Aug 19, 2007, 08:32 PM
    kt1205
    Don't get her to cheat. That will ruin the relationship she's already in and maybe her boyfriend doesn't deserve that. If he treates her bad, then she should break up with him.
  • Aug 19, 2007, 08:46 PM
    jeremy4719
    I'm so damn messed up right now from the fiancé and myself splitting... I think my emotions and thoughts are going to explode... I am so damn sad and hurt that I can't hardly type... I wish things would have worked with the fiancé, but she chose a life of sadness and hurt (from her past) that I couldn't beat... I am trying to move on, making myself (even if it hurts)... That's why I asked out a nice woman... Honestly, the only thing that will help me get over the ex is a new woman that can make me believe in love again OR a lot of time... Sorry for compiling my many posts, but I'm just really torn up..
  • Aug 20, 2007, 06:46 AM
    GlindaofOz
    All you can do is keep going. This woman was taken, big deal. There are plenty of nice, single girls out there. You just have to find someone who is single.

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