OK this is the problem first of all I am 21 years old and I really like two guys and they really like me but I can't decide between them. I mean benny is sweet and romantic and he is everything a romeo would be but he is only 18. And rikki is like the most amazing conversationalist and he completely understands me as a person. However he doesn't really seem very mature at times. I need some advice as to what to do. Do I pick benny the 18 year old romantic or rikki the 19 year old james dean rebel goth guy. Please help!

I see your dilemma. Either is a good choice, but I'd say Benny. He'll learn to understand you as a person over time. Unless Rikki becomes mature over-night, I'd say in the long run, Benny will acquire the skills of Rikki.

Whatever you do, don't play them both, and no sneaking around. You'll lose both of them.

XenoSapien

Date them both and don't get exclusive right now. I have a feeling that, if you do this, your problem will eventually resolve itself. By getting to know both guys thoroughly it'll become crystal clear which one, if either, you should end up with.

Do Not date them both but do not choose to quick I just had the same problem and I messed it up, I chose the bad guy and not the nice guy, like always so I hurt andrew by dating garret and he won't talk to me now 2 weeks later garret told me that we would be better off just seeing each other so I got screwed over... the nice guy will always get a bad side to him, they always do. So my advice for the nice guy, he won't hurt you as quick and the bad guy. I ended up losing both so take your time on choosing if they really like you they can wait.;)