Ask Me Help Desk - Understanding that girl

OK yeah this not anything big or serious this is just something I would like answered. Ok yeah so I'm 16 and I've "liked"(using the word "like" is not the best explanation but I'm gon use it anyway:)) this girl for awhile. I have known her for mabey 3 years now... (its not like I love her or anything but just want to know)

OK yeah so a few years back we used to be real close and we used to always talk a lot. And somehow we found out we both "liked" each other. But being the "mature" individuals we were we decided not to do anything and stay friends as teenage relationships only tend to last 2weeks. So... the constant chatting and hanging out increased and then suddenly it slowly just faded away. We'r still friends but we don't talk as much and I miss that. (not as close)

And well its like I lost a good friend. All I want to know is do girls tend to change as they grow up. Their attitude towards things etc.

//we'r not the most matching of couples but there are those really special times where you feel all weird stuff (and you know that she feels it too)

OK yeah iknow I'm all over the place, sorry about that. I just didn't know where to start. Im living overseas so I don't get to see her anymore but I always try to catch her online. So...

Questions...
Why do they change so quick?
Do they lose interest?
Do they forget?
You think she has something for me?:rolleyes: (aint the end of the world but hey! ill give it ago)

The sad thing is she likes someone else (ithink, owell, that alos still isn't gon stop me from askin)

-thanks for reading

Well, being a girl, I would say that girls DO change over time, and if they're not interested anymore than things will fade away, if you care so much about her I think that you should bring up the "good times" in a converstion online, and casually ask her if she still feels the same way, and if things don't work out hey, like you said, it isn't the end of the world!

Teenage girls are very ADD. They will fully focus on something and throw everything they got at it only to discard it after a short while. Being a woman is a very complex thing and teenage girls struggle with trying to find out who they are and they tend to "try on" a lot of things.

She may just be going through a phase where she doesn't want male friends. I'd drop her an email and just say that you wanted to see how she was doing. See what happens.

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Originally Posted by iloveLf221

Well, being a girl, I would say that girls DO change over time, and if they're not interested anymore than things will fade away, if you care so much about her I think that you should bring up the "good times" in a converstion online, and casually ask her if she still feels the same way, and if things don't work out hey, like you said, it isn't the end of the world!

Yeah true but the thing is, if I bring up the "good times" she'l think I like her.
Which is.. in a sense a good thing but knowing her she may try to distance herself from me.

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Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

Teenage girls are very ADD. They will fully focus on something and throw everything they got at it only to discard it after a short while. Being a woman is a very complex thing and teenage girls struggle with trying to find out who they are and they tend to "try on" a lot of things.

She may just be going through a phase where she doesn't want male friends. I'd drop her an email and just say that you wanted to see how she was doing. See what happens.

Yeah after about 3months I finally caught her online recently and we ended up chatting for ages... it was great!:) but just as friends. She asked me if I saw any "hot chiks" (as I am overseas) and well I said "YES" (which I realize now was a very dumb idea). I was only tryna make her jelous.

Overall I could tell she was happy to get to talk to me:rolleyes:.