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  • Aug 16, 2007, 02:46 AM
    jb2k
    Hmm the clock is ticking
    Welp my ex is going back to school soon and we started chill almost every night and or talk on the phone we act like buddies and kiss and hug and what not I never ask about a relationship but its like she comes to me and crys about going to school and what not and I just feel like crying about how sad I am for not being in the relationship with her I have no idea what I should do or how I can get her back she leaves like next week and I just want a whole day where we can spend together but I'm so afraid to ask her about a relationship again I'm scared ill lose her forever to some lucky guy at school what should I do I have no idea but I do know I want to be with her
  • Aug 16, 2007, 11:16 AM
    Bluerose
    You need to tell her how you feel. One way or another you will know where you stand.
  • Aug 16, 2007, 12:15 PM
    victoria_mitchell
    If you don't ask her... if you don't try... if you don't put yourself out there... You'll regret it forever and ponder your whole life wondering "I wonder if I would have just done it.... I wish I would have...."
  • Aug 16, 2007, 01:11 PM
    Dennis777
    Hello.

    I have the feeling you already have been told there is no chance for a relationship and you have stayed around as her friends just to be around her.

    Wait until she is in school and find your own Mrs. Right. That way she isn't with you like she is now and you can think about yourself not her all the time.

    Dennis777
  • Aug 16, 2007, 01:33 PM
    Oracleofwisdom
    Love can hurt my friend, if you don't love you won learn. I once was friends with a gril I felt I loved. As you grow you will realise its not what you thought it was when you were younger. Love is the ability to be honest and to accept what is said to you by the person you love without going off on one and never talking again love is forgiving and kind. If she has told you know you need to move on, if not you need to tell her how you feel. Honesty is always best. It may not seem like it sometimes but it is. If you did not love someone you would not want to be with them so why would she want to be with you if she does not love you. It is hard and it may hurt but that is love it can sometimes be lonely. You need to find out how she feels if you don't already know. I hope it workd out, but if not work through each day the pain does get better I promise.
  • Aug 24, 2007, 02:44 AM
    jb2k
    Welp she left for school and told me that I won't miss her as much as she'll miss me and we told each other we love each other hugged and I went on my way welp I guess ill just go on with my life but is it wrong to keep a reserve for her because my heart is still with her and from what she tells me her heart is still with me and she says every time I come back I want to see you blah bljah blah we can talk online everyday but I'm thinking maybe she is just saying what I want to hear I just don't know hha my sister gave me a terrot reading haha and it said as soon as your life is back on track a reuinion with a gemini is at hand hahah trish is a gemini hahah that's good news welp thank you all for reading and I wish you all the best but I'm wondering is it OK to send her a gift while she is at school? Cause I found this awesome poster of the band sublime and I already purchased it so like I just was wondering if that's right or not eh

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