I really just realized how much of an idiot I am. Thanks guys lol.

You say you care about how she feels, then your trying to convince her to go for it. You don't care you just want her to suck your (EDITED FOR VULGARITY, CHILDREN SEE THIS SITE). Love is stronger than that to be honest mate, you won't like me for saying it your just a typical guy thinking with his . If you love her drop it. She will think about it and do what she is comfortable with when she is ready and yeah that could be a few years time. She will do what she wants when she wants if you let her. Pressure her and you could get what you want on one hand then loose her forever. When your older you will understand that its more about loving the other person and pleasing them not just shooting your load! Ps I am a guy not a bitter girl and no I'm not gay.

Your 19, she's 17; you shouldn't be doing this at all... it's illegal.

Well you show all the respect and care and concern of a man hiring a hooker. Maybe that would work, pay her,

If you love her and respect her you will not force her to do anything she does not want to.