Hi all, I am really down these days. Here is my whole story. I love this guy to death. I feel like he is my true love. I know him from my childhood and I used to like him then too but was distracted by other things. I am 19 and I dated two other guys till date and I finally got him. Its been 2 years we are together now. But within these 2 years we broke and patch up like 10 times. I know this is wired. I was the one who broke with him many times in the beginning and he use to run after me. He used to like me a lot in the beginning and showed his love to me also. But now its all opposite. I run after him and he seems like he doesn't care. We make out and everything but still I feel like he doesn't share his feelings with me like before. Its really hard to see him that way. I get hurt a lot and I don't want to live my life without him. What should I do? Please help!

Talk to him. Tell him how you are feeling. A relationship has to be two people working together, it doesn't sounds like you guys are on the same page. Let him know exactly what you want from the relationship.

Talking with him really is the only way for you both to feel better. Making out is fun, but it doesn't mean you're in a good relationship or totally happy together.

Yes I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. I sometimes wish my ex would have talked to me about how she was feeling instead of breaking up with me all the time.

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Originally Posted by 143u

Hi all, i am really down these days. Here is my whole story. I love this guy to death. I feel like he is my true love. I know him from my childhood and i used to like him then too but was distracted by other things. I am 19 and i dated two other guys till date and i finally got him. its been 2 years we are together now. but within these 2 years we broke and patch up like 10 times. i know this is wired. I was the one who broke with him many times in the beginning and he use to run after me. he used to like me a lot in the beginning and showed his love to me also. But now its all opposite. I run after him and he seems like he doesn't care. We make out and everything but still i feel like he doesn't share his feelings with me like before. its really hard to see him that way. i get hurt a lot and i don't wanna live my life without him. What should i do? Please help!

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I know my friends suggests me to talk to him and clear things out. But I don't know how to start. I get afraid how he might react.