Vistitations and Relinquishment rights
My husband and I are going to through some major issues with the mother of his children. They divorced 6 years ago, over the last 6 years without a court ordered child support he set up to pay her over $600 a month for his two kid. She has refused for him to see the children over the last 6 years. Because he was military he had to take time off to go to her state: Alabama to file for court order child support and visitations. It has been two years since then, we still do not have court order visitations to see his two kids. They sent judgment in the mail for child support but no visitations. We have called the court house every two week over the last 2 years and no one is dealing with this case. My husband is now to the point of giving over his rights because she is such a horrible person, calls his job harassing him telling his Naval command that she is not getting money and she is. It's just constant drama with her for the last 6 years and he is so done. Question is: If you pay court order child support what are your LEGAL rights to your children with out having to have a piece of paper? Also, can she legally have his check garnished without someone discussing it with him first? Can she lie about her harassing and have his taxes garnished? I want to know or options because he is no longer active duty and is going for the Austin, Tx police department and we dont need anything getting in the way with her drama.