My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months. Hes been amazing in every way... especiallly in bed. When I met him... his sex drive beat mine... he always wanted it. Then... something happened. We moved in together... and it hasn't been the same. Now I want it... I do everything you can think of to get him in the mood... but he says thank you or doesn't want it. Can someone explain why I'm the man now?

He has probably became uninterested. As a relationship grows, things like lust, attraction, and even sex can become a little more "watered down." This is why so many people have trouble at this point in a relationship because it's when you have to start actually working to keep things interesting and fun. Try to spice things up with your sex life; build up anticipation throughout the day by leaving naughty notes or sending text messages. There is so much you can do to spice up and rejuvenate the relationship.

Hello.

Your relationship has moved from Lust to Love and reality. He has set into his reality so its time for you to bring his reality back to lust and excitement. Start by doing all the little things you did before. The notes and sweet smile, act like seeing him each day is special and exciting. Make him feel needed and wanted. In time he will start treating you the same way. You can do it so start today and don't think it will happen over night but it will happen.

If you need some other ideas of bringing the spark back let me know.

Dennis777