Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a little bit OK but we have been fighting a lot lately about the stupidest things.. so she then asked me "why do you love me" and I didn't have a solid answer... I know I love her I have very strong feelings for her and she means everything to me . I want our relationship to work so bad.. I love her I know I do but I can't think of the right thing to say to her.. I can't picture my life without her and I don't want to lose her because of this can somebody please help me... I need her...

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Originally Posted by ryanleclair111

me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a lil bit ok but we have been fighting alot latley about the stupidest things.. so she then asked me "why do you love me" and i didnt have a sloid awnswer.... i know i love her i have very strong feelings for her and she means everything to me . i want our relationship to work so badd.. i love her i know i do but i can't think of the right thing to say to her.. i can't picture my life without her and i dont want to lose her because of this can somebody please help me... i need her...

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You just need to tell her what's in your heart, don't even think about it... just tell her!
" i can't picture my life without her " <--------- like this, that's the kind of things she's looking for!
and for the fighting over "stupid" things, sometimes that happens when couples get stressed out over things. Money, work, family

Hope this helps

Ryanleclair111, me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a little bit OK but we have been fighting a lot lately about the stupidest things..

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Like what stupid things and why argue instead of compromising.

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so she then asked me "why do you love me" and I didn't have a solid answer...

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Because you've never thought about it.

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I know I love her I have very strong feelings for her and she means everything to me .

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Then why can't you tell her.

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I want our relationship to work so bad.. I love her I know I do but I can't think of the right thing to say to her..

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NOT GOOD!!

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I can't picture my life without her

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Thats a very good start, see you can do it.

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and I don't want to lose her because of this can somebody please help me... I need her...

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Then I strongly suggest you figure out your feelings and LEARN to express them in a way she understands as most all relationships that are happy are built on honest communications. No communication, no relationship.

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My ex asked me this before. I didn't give her a solid answer either. We didn't communicate very good with each, telling each other how we truly felt. We have had 5-6 breakups because we didn't talk about what the problems were in the relationship. So if were you I would talk to her and work on your communications skills with her. Because like Tal said no communication, no relationship.

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Originally Posted by ryanleclair111

me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a lil bit ok but we have been fighting a lot lately about the stupidest things.. so she then asked me "why do you love me" and i didn't have a solid answer.... i know i love her i have very strong feelings for her and she means everything to me . i want our relationship to work so bad.. i love her i know i do but i can't think of the right thing to say to her.. i can't picture my life without her and i don't want to lose her because of this can somebody please help me... i need her...

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You just said the things on here that you could have answered her question with hon. Tell her she means everything to you, tell her you can't picture your life without her and that you need her. These are the things she needs to hear.

Good luck hon!

Tell her you love her, tell her she means the world to you.
Let her know about all the things that made you fall in love with her-the color of her eyes, the way she laughs at silly jokes, the way she hugs you or kisses you. Remember, the smallest things matter the most to women.