I've knowen this guy for a couple of years now, we have been very close and I'm starting to fall in love with him but he's 11 or 12 years older then me. So what should I do, is it really OK to go out with him or not ? Please answer before he asks me.

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Originally Posted by innocent_101

I've knowen this guy for a couple of years now, we have been very close and I'm starting to fall inlove with him but he's 11 or 12 years older then me. So what should I do, is it really ok to go out with him or not ? please answer before he asks me.

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I am not an expert but, I don't think that is a very big age (if your both ver 18) difference especially if you don't have a problem with it. I would go out with him and take things slowly

Well first off how old are you and how old is he?

Good question and I reiterate ; how old are the two of you? I think that's more important than looking at your ages compared to each other. 18 and 30 might be a tough mix. 30 and 42, on the other hand, should be no problem at all.

I agree with s_cianci and BMI, how old are you two?
And is he married or not?

Heyy it all depends on how old you are

I took a 19 year old waitress out to a movie in 1998 when I was 38. We married Oct 2001 and are still doing great. We are 18years 9 months apart in age but she is mature for 28 and I am still a child at 47. We are madly in love with each other. Good luck

I personally do not think that age matters at all it if all that your heart feels I am madly in love with my boyfriend and his 33 fixing to turn 34 and I am only 21 years old... So go for it who know that person just might be tha right one for you.. :) good luck

As long as you are considered an adult in the eyes of the law... otherwise there's another name than love for it!