I am 18 and I have recently lost my virginity to a friend that I have been knowing for about a month and I am not on birth control. He just recently broke up with his 3 yr long girlfriend to be with me. One day he tells me that he loves and he continues for about another month. Then one day he tells me that he still loves his ex and I get really upset knowing that I lost my virginity to someone who still loves his ex. This brought me on a lot of stress for about a day and I got over it. We continue to talk to each other and having sex. My period is about a week and a half late and I don't think I am pregnant. (I hope not because I am not ready). This past Saturday we have sex again and the condom popped not knowing and he ejaculated into me. The next day I went by the Plan B at a local drug store. Should I purchase a pregnancy test? PLEASE HELP!! Any answers are greatly appreciated...

OK, to me it sounds like there are a lot of issues here besides your "fear" of pregnancy. From the sounds of it, you lost your virginity to someone that you only knew for a month, who said he loved you, but now says he's still in love with his ex-girlfriend... yet you are STILL having sex with each other... did I miss anything? There are a lot of things you need to get in order in your life, before you take chances with bringing a child into this life, with parents that don't love each other and are only acquaintances having sex. That being said, since you got plan b, it is doubtful that you will be pregnant, but anything is possible. If you miss your next period, take a test. And if you are going to continue with this "relationship" and don't want to get pregnant, you need to start taking more procautions, such as the pill AND a condom.

The thing was that before the day the condom had popped my period was already a week late.

Hi dear, first let me congradulate you on keeping your virginity so long. That's something to be proud of.

Sorry that you chose a jerk to share this with. Stop having sex with this jerk, he is not worth it. I hope, for your sake that you are not pregnant, but if you are you will have to make plans for your future quick. So, please do a test and then see a doctor or family planning clinic as soon as possible.

You are not alone here, so stay with us and keep us posted.

Good Luck.

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Originally Posted by sgrsweetmon123

The thing was that before the day the condom had popped my period was already a week late.

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A week late isn't a big deal. Stress alone could have put you back that far. Unfortunately at this point, only time will tell if you are pregnant. Your behavior certainly puts you at that risk.

Unfortunately the person you lose your virginity half the time is not the perfect guy and turns out to be a real a**, but you should practice safer sex and stop having sex with a guy who is still in love with his ex. And who realistically can say they are in love with someone after knowing them for only a month? B more careful and make better decisions