I marreid my hsband inItaly,I'm an American.
I brought him to USA
We had 2 kids here
He never wanted to work so told him to go back to italy
He went back but won't divorce me
Its been 10 years now and I want to move on, help!!

That is hard problem : I sorry that I even answering 'cause I really don't know what you can do.. maybe you have to go to Italy and find your husband : )

IF you are still in the US, sue for divorce where you live, while hard, it can be done.