Originally Posted by tkdgal
The most effective way to regain someone's trust is to give them time to heal. Being clingy or acting desperate is extremely unattractive, and it will continue to remind him of your "childish" attention-seeking behavior. Your boyfriend is most likely in a state of confusion, and is asking for your patience while he sorts out what he really wants. Remember all of the drama you caused over a small misunderstanding - keying someone's car and throwing papers in someone's face are very inconsiderate actions. If, vice versa, your boyfriend had done the same to you, I'm sure you'd need time by youself, as well. By putting yourself in his shoes, it displays your thoughtfulness and willingness to change for the sake of the relationship (but you must really want to change), and if he still cares about you after all of this, he'll notice, through your waiting for him, that there is still a chance to repair the damage. Try to leave what you did behind, but next time something confuses you (if he is avoiding you or acting differently for no apparent reason), don't jump to conclusions, but calmy discuss with him how you feel. Communication is vital in a relationship, and must be done. Good luck :) !
