Ok I am talking to my ex-girlfriend who isn't very pretty but I love her for who she is. Now I could get a better looking girl but I like this one. I can't keep her off my mind even though she has lied to me,made fun of me,dumped me,and cheated on me. I still like her and my question is how can I get her back because now she won't date me and this is sooo backwards! :confused:

WHY?

You say is is not that good looking,

You say she lied to you,

You say you can get "better looking" girls... and you like her for "who she is".

Who and what is she? Is she famous? What is so special about her?

OK, one last question... how old are you?

Sorry, but your post is truly "backwards" and it needs a little re-thinking on your part before anyone of us can give you some direct advice.

What are you willing to give or even give up to achieve your goal, and what in all reality will you gain by reaching it? This last question should be asked and then answered by you.

If she is just an obsession, you will get over it like the urges one has for food or something special to drink and once consumed, the urge fades away, and a substitute is found.

Good luck dear.

You need help, or are a glutton for punishment. Neither is healthy.