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  • Aug 7, 2007, 07:02 PM
    Ash123
    10 things to help make sense of a complicated world
    A few thoughts on subjects we come across on most visits here:

    1. Women under 25 want to have fun and have a man who just wants to have fun.
    (All good until - Until he leaves her. Or she leaves him. Then, one wishes the other was more responsible.)
    Perfect Guy: Self-confident. Friends with her friends. A bit hard to pin down.
    Some may want to get married at this age, but they don't want a...dad.

    2. Women over 25 want to have fun and have a man that will be a potential husband and father to her children.
    (All good until he becomes too domestic. Then, she wants him to get out more.)
    Perfect Guy: Self confident. Friends with her friends. A bit hard to pin down.

    3. Uncommonly gorgeous women do not necessarily have a painless life. Men desire them. Women are envious of them. A bedrock relationship with both parents helps them avoid bad decisions and bad relationship choices.
    3B. Uncommonly handsome men are gay - or might as well be if they don't have a legitimate goal.

    4. Those who do well in love
    ,
    Trust their inner voice.

    5. Those who don't to well in love,
    Fear their inner voice.

    6. A break-up
    Is the Universe's way of reminding us we're human. Those that see it as an opportunity to grow find love faster.

    7. Love is
    The Universe's way of reminding us we're human.

    8. Loving yourself
    Is not selfish.

    9. Loving no one
    Is selfish.

    10. Being giddy around someone who is giddy to be around you for life requires only one kind of love: The real thing.
  • Aug 7, 2007, 07:26 PM
    Dennis777
    Thank You... This is something to think about for sure.

    Dennis777
  • Aug 7, 2007, 07:31 PM
    soseductive6669
    You answerd my question... I just wanted to write back... see... I tried to break up with him the other night, and he told me hed work on things... yea, there are a lot of guys who like me(not to sound concieded) this guy lives in flordia, and I don't want to lose my boyfriend and realize I did love him.. I just don't know how to tell him.. I keep telling him that I wasn't ready for a long term relationship, and he just pulled things like... "well you shouldnt have asked for a ring then, or why are you tellin me this now"... I don't know what to do?
  • Aug 7, 2007, 07:37 PM
    Ash123
    You sound young (which you are) and a bit lost.
    I hope your home life (parents) are good role models...
    You need to focus on the books more than the boys at your age.
    Or you'll end up pregnant and broke-o... hard to believe but TRUE.
    How do you break-up? Tell a white lie and get home and study.
    Sorry to oversimplify but it's true... If you still feel unsure try this kiddo:

    Good luck!

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...de-116834.html
  • Aug 8, 2007, 05:23 AM
    nicespringgirl
    Quote:

    1. Women under 25 want to have fun and have a man who just wants to have fun.
    Never think like that... I guess I am an old woman then... :D

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