Hi

I am currently dating someone who I care for dearly and would do anything for in a drop of dime. But I am having a hard time dealing with trusting him, he is good to me. He always home and works real hard to provide for me, but he has an issue with the Internet, came across an issue when he has claim to be single to other on the intranet an states he just want to have fun. Help me understand


Thank you

He is on a dating website saying he lives in another state and that he is single? I wouldn't trust him either. Is he telling you to trust him over this? I would listen to your gut about it.

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Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

He is on a dating website saying he lives in another state and that he is single? I wouldn't trust him either. Is he telling you to trust him over this? I would listen to your gut about it.

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Yes he has stated that he lives in another city, and he just want to have some fun but he is not look for anyone at this time. I just want to make sure I was not over reacting. He is good me, but maybe a snake in the grass

It would make me suspicious. I wouldn't want the man in my life to be carrying on an emotional affair with someone. I do not think you are overreacting. I would talk to him and ask him why he feels that this is fun.

Because two things could be going on 1) he's looking for someone else away from you both live or 2) he is a mean person who wants to lead on some girl who is honestly looking for a relationship because he thinks its funny... either way not good.

I say go with your gut. If you can't trust him then it isn't worth staying to see if he will hurt you. If I were you, I wouldn't take the chance! There are many guys out there, just when you stop looking one comes around the corner. I really wish you luck...

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Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

It would make me suspicious. I wouldn't want the man in my life to be carrying on an emotional affair with someone. I do not think you are overreacting. I would talk to him and ask him why he feels that this is fun.

Because two things could be going on 1) he's looking for someone else away from you both live or 2) he is a mean person who wants to lead on some girl who is honestly looking for a relationship because he thinks its funny...........either way not good.

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Thank you for your input.

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Originally Posted by startover22

I say go with your gut. If you can't trust him then it isn't worth staying to see if he will hurt you. If I were you, I wouldn't take the chance! There are many guys out there, just when you stop looking one comes around the corner. I really wish you luck.......

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Thank you so much for your help--

Anytime, you know what els? You are somebody!! Respect yourself, take charge. It take courage to stand up for yourself, it really does!

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Originally Posted by startover22

anytime, you know what els? You are somebody!!! Respect yourself, take charge. It take courage to stand up for yourself, it really does!

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You are totally right, but what bother me the most, is that I am that person who gives and gives and gives. And at first it was OK,but now its kind of like a demand for him. I have spoke to him a some way what he feeling and to my face he say he happy and thing couldn't be any better, I was really floored when I found out he was on the intranet stating he single and wanting to have fun, lying about where he lives and so on. It has stuck with me for awhile. If I could swipe that part of our relationship clean it would be perfect..

But yes nothing perfect. But I can't swallow the fact HE may be a DOG

That is hard to swollow! You make your decisions, we will help either way! Talk to him and tell him your honest feelings, see how he reacts and no lies. You will know sweet!

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Originally Posted by startover22

That is hard to swollow! You make your decisions, we will help either way! Talk to him and tell him your honest feelings, see how he reacts and no lies. You will know sweet!

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Thank you, I will keep you all posted

Thanks, I wish you lot's of courage and luck!