If you have Passion , good sex , strong physical attraction and a snack and joint after, how could a person know if they are truly in love or infactuated.

Well if you're in love you let the other person have the first drag.

Sorry... just don't know how to respond other than being a smarta$$. It's a gift.

Well, love involves a lot more aspects that those that you listed above. Love involves trust, caring about one another, being able to keep a flame even though your use to each other, communication,. the list goes on and on! You know when it's actual love...

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Originally Posted by kp2171

well if youre in love you let the other person have the first drag.

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Insightful!! Lol!! I must not be very loved!:eek:

You will know when you are in love, trust me. Right now, it seems as if it is just lust. When you love someone you look beyond just those aspects you listed, you want to be able to talk with her about anything, trust her, be there for her, commit to her... and so much more. How long have you two been together ?

What you are describing is some good ol lusty infatuation. When you love someone its more then just sex and passion. Its everything.

But hey until the real deal comes along, it sounds like you have a good thing going. NO, seriously, love happens on its own. Maybe it starts as an infatuation, or maybe it is love at first sight. IT is different for everyone. I know when you can't stop thinking about them and you want to be with them all the time, that is a sign. (Unless you're a stalker)
If you picture sharing your future together and you trust and believe in each other, as well as have mutual respect, that is real love in my eyes.

You cannot deny real love. It just is.