I have a boyfriend who is 7yrs younger than me. We are dating from 2004, now we decided to get married on October, but when he return to his working place, he stay at hotel for almost 2 months. He always telephone me too, but I am so angry because our wedding day is near, he spent almost his money, and drink too much. I don't know what shall I do. Yes I do love him, but if I married someone like him.. what is my future, someone help me. He always said he love me and want to marry me... he said 'if you married someone I will kill you and I will kill myself too' but he broke all his promises.. what shall I do? Do I have to wait him or find someone else.. did anyone face a problem like this? I do need your advise and reply me soon... I am eagerly waiting, sometimes I want to die.. I can't even sleep can't eat.. I've lost weight too.. My life will never be the same again..

sailo

[QUOTE=sailo]I have a boyfriend who is 7yrs younger than me. We are dating from 2004, now we decided to get married on October, but when he return to his working place, he stay at hotel for almost 2 months. He always telephone me too, but I am so angry because our wedding day is near, he spent almost his money, and drink too much. I don't know what shall I do. Yes I do love him, but if I married someone like him.. what is my future, someone help me. He always said he love me and want to marry me... he said 'if you married someone I will kill you and I will kill myself too' but he broke all his promises.. what shall I do? Do I have to wait him or find someone else.. did anyone face a problem like this? I do need your advise and reply me soon... I am eagerly waiting, sometimes I want to die.. I can't even sleep can't eat.. I've lost weight too.. My life will never be the same again.. I will be very happy if someone reply my question..

sailo

He has threatened to kill you, and you are wondering if you should marry him? I'm sorry but you have much bigger problems on your hand than love. This guy is obviously crazy and needs some help.

I can't tell the future... but I can tell you it doesn't look good. You are dealing with someone that has broken all his promises, is drinking too much and has spent almost all of his money... and who really lives at a hotel for 2 months? Actions speak louder than words... so even though he says he loves you, he is doing a terrible job of showing it. Get out while you still can... You need to call the wedding off, call the relationship off, and get yourself to a buffet and go crazy!

He is immature. You are not!
Let him go! Not worth of it