Ok so, a friend of mine is dating this guy and they have been dating for only a month and have known each other for 7 years. He works out of town and when he is gone he is the sweetest guy ever towards her, but when he is in town he doesn't act like that, he doesn't rarely want to kiss her she feels like they are just friends, when they are just sitting there she has to make the move on him by grabbing his hands just to get him to hold her hand. He tells her that he does not want to have sex with her because it is just not appealing to him at this moment and it is weird, they have only made out 2 times since they have been dating and kissed maybe 10 times. What she wants to know is if this guy actually likes her or does he not like like public display of affection? His last relationship was 5 years and this is his first one since then.

I think he still sees her as a friend. It's really easy to be a great guy on the phone from another city... and that's not to say he's being a bad guy by his actions. But it sounds like she's had feelings that go deeper then friendship for some time and he is all new to this. Also, depending on how long ago he broke up from the 5 year relationship, he might just want to take it slow. Maybe he's still getting over that.