Well I've known this guy for a long time and he keeps on telling me how unhappy he is with tthis girl and how he wants to break it up. I just found out that he likes me and I've liked him for a long time.I want to go out with him but I feel bad for his girl friend. It looks like he's dumping her for me.but its just because he's unhappy.I really want to go out with him.what do I do?

If he's unhappy then of course he's going to want out. He found you and he likes you now and you like him so go out with him if you want. As for his current gf, don't feel so bad for her. It's better to get dumped then be pitty dated.:)

Allow him to break it off with his girlfriend first. Do not be the other woman and don't interfere with his relationship. After he breaks it off with her, then you can pursue a relationship with him.

I will assume you are teenagers, in such cases boys and girls break and go with others all the time often at the drop of a hat for little or not reason. Just remember as he dumps this girl, most likely you will be dumping him or he you in the future as one grows and changes.
* not always of course.

Hello.

Give him time to break up with her and get his head together before you start dating him. It's not only the best way for you not to be the bad person, it's the only way it will work between you. If you don't take the time to know yourself after a relationship you don't know what you want in the next one.

Dennis777

Actually, I advice you to wait longer than most people have told you under this post.
After he dumps his current girlfriend, you still need to wait a little bit longer, because you never know about his gf's reaction after she got dumped. I knew the true story that one girlfriend cut herself after a week her boyfriend dumped her, then everyone started to blame his new girlfriend.
Just wait, a little bit longer is not much a difference.

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Originally Posted by khankeyxo

well ive known this guy for a long time and he keeps on telling me how unhappy he is with tthis girl and how he wants to break it up. i just found out that he likes me and i've liked him for a long time.i want to go out with him but i feel bad for his girl friend. it looks like he's dumping her for me.but its just because he's unhappy.i really want to go out with him.what do i do?

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Do you know this girl? Why should it matter anyway he is in to you and you are in to him that 's it.