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  • Aug 4, 2007, 03:07 PM
    XMouse
    What's going on ?
    Confused.
    I recently meet this guy and had a connection with him. We basically spent 2 week together 24/7. I have no slept with him and he has not pressured me. He is an awsome guy. I live in a different state and will not be back to see him till December. He said he will wait for me and we will stay in close contact and I believed him. And how he really likes me and such.
    AND now my last day he did not text me and I went and saw him and got him to talk to me [He was reluctant] and he explained that he was just unsure how to respond to some of my text cause he did not know what we would do with our relationship. Now it's the day I leave and I have sent him text and he has not replyed at all. He said he would call me on his way to work and he did not do that.

    Is he blowing me off ? Cause I really like him and I think/though he really liked me too.
  • Aug 4, 2007, 05:15 PM
    nicespringgirl
    He is really not sure about the relationship yet.
    Maybe he has another girl that he is comparing you two so that confuses him
    Or he gets scared to be responsible for a long tern relationship, afraid of commitment.
    Or he is a player...
    Or... many possibilities...
    May I ask how old are you both?
    Thanks
  • Aug 4, 2007, 07:23 PM
    Dennis777
    Hello.

    Give it some time and see where it goes. It could be the reality setting in and he sees that being together long distance is hard. It could also be the he misses you already and doesn't know what to say to you right now. In time you will know the answer.

    Dennis777
  • Aug 4, 2007, 07:35 PM
    GlindaofOz
    I'm guessing you guys are kind of young. The prospect of a long distance relationship is difficult for adults let alone teenagers. He may just be worried that neither of you will be able to sustain a relationship until you can see each other again.

    I would just write him off and look forward to meeting lots of new people and seeing what happens.
  • Aug 4, 2007, 10:11 PM
    XMouse
    Well. The thing is. There is a possibility of moveing back if I wanted to. And I do for many other reasons but I really want to talk to him and see that if I did this if he would be there for me.

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