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  • Aug 4, 2007, 09:03 AM
    just another girl22
    Love and hate are too close
    My friend,let's call her lex decided that she doesn't want to be friends with me any more since she moved to a different state and now my parents won't let me talk to her because of what happened. Now she is telling everyone that I am a user and I tell lies. She even went as far as telling my boy friend that I was going to break up with him. Now I don't ever want to be friends with her again but how do I make her stop telling lies about me?Please Help me before no one likes me:(
  • Aug 4, 2007, 09:10 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Just ignore her. If you show that you really don't care what she, or anyone else, thinks about you, then her crap talking will die down and she'll move on to pick on someone weaker than you are. If your boyfriend really knows you, and really loves/likes you, he will know not to listen to someone that is talking out of anger. People like that feed off your anger, and if you don't give them anything to feed off, then they'll move on.
  • Aug 4, 2007, 09:12 AM
    just another girl22
    Thank you for your wonderful answer my boy friend just called and said he loves me more than ever thanks
  • Aug 4, 2007, 09:14 AM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by just another girl22
    Thank you for your wonderful answer my boy friend just called and said he loves me more than ever thanks

    You're welcome. See what I mean? He knows not to believe someone that speaks out of anger, or someone that has a history of telling lies :)
  • Aug 4, 2007, 09:23 AM
    Canada_Sweety
    I'm sorry to say it, but there isn't really anything you can do. You have to ignore it because she lives too far for you to comfront her. I was in this situation and I returned the favour but honestly, I wish I had been the bigger person and just walked away and ignored it. Ignore the stupid lies and if she starts telling your boyfriend more lies, just tell him to block her and keep her out of his life because she only intends on hurting him and you and your relationship.
  • Aug 4, 2007, 04:51 PM
    just another girl22
    Thanks she went home now so I hope It will just be me and my boy now so you thanks again ttyl bye :cool: :rolleyes: :D :)
  • Aug 17, 2007, 01:01 AM
    vegoget
    Don't be worried just act with her as she does to you and about that boy friend if he believes in you and loves you he won't believe lex

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