Originally Posted by Pook_Myster
This feeling that you're feeling.....I know it......it almost makes you wonder if the heart-fluttering goodness of a new relationship is worth it - if it ends with such devastating feelings of loss.
I think that we feel such loss because we put so much trust and effort into a relationship, and truely believe that the person we are sharing with is worth our last breathe on earth.....so when we have been so blind to not see their lies, we are devasted that we missed the signs.....
BUT - we live and learn......
Spend some time finding yourself again - someone mentioned shopping at the mall or dressing up for cocktails - I would recommend it all......if you feel beautiful, then you are beautiful, and before you know it those heart-flutters will be back with the arrival of another heartless ba*stard! Hehehe......hey - the laws of probability would have it that at some stage, we have to find a winner!
Good luck =)