How can I overcome this fear?
My whole life everyone has been like sex is bad you should wait blah blah blah... I have been waiting. Now, I'm 19 and people are all shocked because I'm still a virgin. The problem is I'm afraid now. I've been waiting for so long and I'm so used to it being a bad thing that I've built up a phobia. Now when ever someone seems like they want to have sex with me I freeze up and try to find something else to do. I really want to and I've had a lot of offers from a lot of people ranging from people I really care about to people I hardly know. People say I have an amazing body and they can't believe I'm still a virgin. I always pretend like I'm saving myself 4 marriage be I'm just really scared. I don't know what to do!! Any suggestions?