So I met this girl at a party and she gave me her number without me even asking for it. Well, I was interested and called her and we went out last weekend to the movies with another couple. So I called her two days after the date and we talked for like an hour. I have called her before the date a couple of times and we talked for a pretty long time. But the thing is she won't call me to talk but when I call we talk just about everything for long amounts of time. So does she like me or does she want to just be friends or what? And should I ask her if she wants to go to this pool party with me on Saturday night with me and some friends?

Invite her to the pool party, why not?
As for her not calling, maybe she wants you to come to her rather then having to be teh one to call. She's probably interested but having a few personal issues.

Maybe she is just taking it slow. I would suggest taking her to the party and see how it goes. If all goes well at the party ask her out again and maybe make it just the two of you. If she is talking to you she sounds like she is intrested.

No no no... sorry to say she is not interested. Good girls are waiting for mr. Perfect to come along or would like to just have a nice friend to have fun dating without all that drama , we don't give the cold shoulder also remember where you meet her,. think back... and you are not the first person she has done this to.

I disagree with KEENABENA... I didn't call my now boyfriend of 14 months for weeks when we first got together he always had to call me... good girls are looking for guys that take charge and show interest. I would keep calling her, maybe she's shy maybe she wants you to call her I mean if she didn't like you she wouldn't pick up and even if she picked up to be polite your conversations would not last as long as what you are describing. Worse comes to worse nothing happens except you have a good friend that you enjoy talking to... I don't see a downside...

OK I see your piont ms. Victoria


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Originally Posted by maxima16

So i met this girl at a party and she gave me her number without me even asking for it. Well, I was interested and called her and we went out last weekend to the movies with another couple. So i called her two days after the date and we talked for like an hour. I have called her before the date a couple of times and we talked for a pretty long time. But the thing is she wont call me to talk but when i call we talk just about everything for long amounts of time. So does she like me or does she wanna just be friends or what? And should i ask her if she wants to go to this pool party with me on Saturday night with me and some friends?

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I think that she actually might like you... see a girl always wait for a guy to call... you are saying that you guys talk for a long time... that means she enjoys talking to you so... I say go for it... ask her to go with you to that pool party and if she says yes then Great and if she says no well you don't have nothing to loose... Take a chance... you'll be sorry if you stay with your doubt...

I would say ignore her for a while and than call her see how she reacts