Is there any way that I can take legal action against my husbands girlfriend to keep her out of our lives for good? She seems to always find a way to weasel her way back in through nonstop calling of friends who get so fed up they have himm call her to see if he can get her to stop. This always leads to can you just help me do this or that.

Do they have kids together? I don't know if you can do anything about it besides having t her number blocked. You would have to call the local police department to find out. If your husband has no ties to her because of kids I don't know why he would go and if he wants to go next time go with him.

If she's in the same state you could file a nuisance or restraining order but that would only be valid for you and your husband. Your friends may just want to block her phone number. But I would go to the police station and see what they recommend - that is if there are no kids involved.