The pregnancy books I am reading talk about feeling your uterus. For example, at this far along you should feel it at about one finger length from your belly button. My question is what am I feeling for? Is it hard or soft? How do I know I am feeling my uterus? Also, at how far along can you usually start feeling your uterus? I know at 12 weeks it is right above your pelvic bone. Should you be able to feel this? I am at 9 weeks now, is it possible to feel my uterus yet?