Just curious;)

If a female is goal oriented, puts most of her effort on academic/leadership/and career insteading of looking for guys, dating.
She isn't interested in dating until 25 yr-old, what would you guys think about her?
Can you accept someone who starts being interested in dating until that late?
What is your thought?

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My thoughts are that she is very ambitious, but aside from that it doesn't speak to her character or personality at all. She can be a fabulous person or not.

If I were interested in dating her and she interested in dating me but wouldn't because of these reasons, I would feel slightly put out but no big deal. But that's just me. Some guys like ambitious girls, some do not. My only concern is that she is so focused on those aspects of her life that she may miss a very wonderful relationship without really being aware of it.

I didn't really start dating seriously until I was 27, I just wanted to party. I wish I would have because I think you need to see what out their before you know what you want and to get experience of what the red flags are in a serious relationship. But a girl would not go out with me because I didn't date a lot or had a serious relationship. So yes I wouldn't probably date someone that didn't have expereince.

That's why I am in this website, I have learned so much.:)
Thank you all.

Hello.

I would think she was a very smart lady and would give her all the credit in the world for knowing what she wanted in life and not just following the group.

You do need to have some fun during this time. All work is not good for anyone. Im not saying Boy Girl fun but be sure to take some time for yourself.

Good Luck
Dennis777

Doesn't matter what others think of your plan. Its your plan and if it works for you, then it's a darn good one. Do your thing your way. Much Luck!

I think she can be able to take care of herself, smart, seems hot too;)
Hard to get... maybe
I also think she might be too good for me, will she like me?

I always like an ambitious girl, but usually they are really really hard to get a date with.
They are always too busy with their work, school stuff like that.

Those traits certainly wouldn't decrease my interest in dating her. In fact it would probably increase them.

Of course it all depends on many other personality traits as well.

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nicespringgirl agrees: she has a wonderful personality, but I forgot to add that she is against sex before marriage, that would problly bring down ur interest, is that right? :P"

No, certainly not. If I loved her enough to marry her then I would love her enough respect her wishes. I suppose I would only know how I felt about it if I were ever in such a situation.

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Originally Posted by nicespringgirl

Just curious;)

If a female is goal oriented, puts most of her effort on academic/leadership/and career insteading of looking for guys, dating.
She isn't interested in dating until 25 yr-old, what would you guys think about her?
Can you accept someone who starts being interested in dating until that late?
What is your thought?

:)

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I can accept that and I think I would want to date that person more because they don't carry around a lot of baggage or kids like so many young women do now these days. I'm ready when you are.

I should say, finding the right person and having the right relationship is by itself an important goal in life, which needs work. But usually people think they can do whatever else they want to do and after they have accomplished all their goals they will meet somebody and get married and have children … It is not like that. Why not setting moderate goals and make a balance between work and personal life. Having a relationship, if it is a constructive one, should not affect achieving goals. It might even help progress better, not being worried about getting old and lonely. So my advice is not to separate goals from relationships. We need to love and be loved. I agree though that when you have kids it is more difficult to study, at least for the first two years. So perhaps we can have a relationship, or marriage before achieving goals and have the baby later. But having a relationship should not make us so emotional. Being too emotional can be dangerous. Relationships do not work some times and it is a fact.

Frankly, I wouldn't have a problem with anything you're suggesting. I wouldn't think much of it at all.