I met a guy in September last year through my bebo. He had commented on my music taste saying, 'You love Nirvana! How awesome, me too!'
So then I asked for his msn and we got chatting. We finally met up about a week later, and got on really well with one another. He was too good to be true.
Then we finally started going out about 3 weeks after we met each other. It went on very well at the beginning but after a couple of weeks for no reason at all he started to become less chatty and less fond of metting up. At this time he had started hanging around with the skaters more than me. The 'leader' of the skaters sat next to me in biology and he didn't like me at all because he thinks I'm a 'fake' (Fake meaning to pretend I'm into the music I say I am but I'm really into different music). The next week my boyfriend ended our relationship by text.
I was totally devastated I really really liked him! I was sure it was cause of his new best mate (the skater). I really think that he had talked him into finishing with me because my ex was still texting me at night and begging me to come on msn.
But after about 4 or 5 months we totally stopped speaking. And didn't really hear much about each other until now.
I had started to look at him again during lunch breaks and stuff and I think he must've noticed because all of a sudden just before the summer holidays had started he spoke to me on msn.
But I've noticed a change in the way he's speaking to me. The conversations now are full of sex. We've both aged since then and I know it's normal to speak about this but it's basically everything we speak about. He's asked me lots of questions like if I masturbate, what I would've done with him if we were going out.. etc.
It was really looking up for us and I was enjoying these conversations because they were more intimate, but here's the problem..
This sounds childish to me but I can't help being bothered about it. Now, whenever I come on MSN he's usually online but doesn't start a conversation with me. So I start one with him and we start chatting. But it happens every time I sign in now! Has he just been speaking to me because he's bored and no one else is on? Or is he just trying to play hard to get?
He said I should come over to his house and alone when everyone in his house is out so we can get up to naughty stuff.. But I don't think he's even going to ask me out. Is he using me? Or is he just scared of getting ditched by his best mate (The skater)?
Im really confused because once again, I am in love with him! And I can't help it. But I need some answers, quick!

If he missed you and loved you, and wanted to get back, he wouldn't say something to you Like, "Come over to my house alone so we can get up to naughty stuff." Especially since you're not his girlfriend at the moment. Which means he just wants sex.

If he loved you too, He wouldn't have broken up with you just because of a friend told him to saying that you were, "fake."

And from what I can deduct, it seems he wants you to start conversations with him about sex, so he can have sex with you.