Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend not too long ago because all he cared about were his friends(he would break plans with me to hang out with them! ) and we were needing to talk about our relationship and he decided to go hang out with his friends instead so I just told him it was over. I didn't want to but I knew I had to. Anyway, I talked to him today wanting to try again (this is the second time we have dated) but he wants to be friends right now because since the break up he has gotten to do whatever he wants and stay out with his friends as late as he wants without having anyone to "hold him back". I really want us to get back together but I don't know what to do!! Does anyone know wha I should do?:confused:

It sounds like he doesn't want to get back together. You can't make someone do something that they don't want to do. I would let him have his space and just move on.

I don't think there's much you can do. You may want to get back together but he obviously doesn't and probably never really wanted a relationship to begin with. Forget this one and move on.

Find someoen new... someone better for you.:)

I am a guy, so buy him saying he want to be with his friends he doesn't want a relationship he want to party. I was that way when 19.

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Originally Posted by Cheergirl123

Ok so i broke up with my boyfriend not too long ago because all he cared about were his friends(he would break plans with me to hang out with them!!) and we were needing to talk about our relationship and he decided to go hang out with his friends instead so i just told him it was over. I didn't want to but i knew i had to. Anyways, i talked to him today wanting to try again (this is the second time we have dated) but he wants to be friends right now because since the break up he has gotten to do whatever he wants and stay out with his friends as late as he wants without having anyone to "hold him back". I really want us to get back together but i don't know what to do!!! Does anyone know wha i should do?:confused:

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You already broke up once. It didn't work out the second time. MOVE ON. You owe it to yourself and your guy.

Just give him some space. If you keep going after him he probably won't be interested. But if you act like you're not interested anymore, he might want to chase you again. Good luck!

He outright told you that he does not want a relationship at all. That said, do nothing but move on. You'll find someone else who is worth your time and you'll forget all about whats-his-name.