Her parents say that were are family are to close and if we go out that we will ruin everything and the reason are families are close is because of us hanging out. So right now we are sneaky around but its so hared cuse we care about each other so much.
But we think we might end so we can remain friends. And we might end it cuse she's going to a different school what do u think we should do?

I think sneaking around is a bad thing. There is a reason that your parents don't want you guys to date and I think you should respect that. Stay friends, it seems like you guys have probably grown up together so I'm sure your friendship is strong. Never underestimate the gift it is to have a close friend of the opposite sex.

Are familys have only started hanging out this sumer

I don't understand what you mean by your families being close or why that should be a factor. Also there is a lot left out like your ages.

But Glinda is 100% right about sneaking around not being an answer.

Were 16

I also asked you to explain why your parents don't want you to be together.