Well I'm 15 and I really want a GF because I haven't had one in a while and its just so hard for me because I'm so self conscience about myself and the way I look. Every time I'm about to attempt asking a girl out I get really nervous and choked up and I end up not doing it. So how do I ask ask a girl out without getting choked up and really nervous and getting the girl I want, instead of embarissing myself.:(

It sounds like you are getting yourself so worked up that you are psyching yourself out. Maybe you are focusing on being rejected instead of her accepting? Try to relax and be confident about it, nothing is more attractive to a girl then a boy who is confident. Maybe get yourself worked up in your head like yeah I'm going ask this girl out and she is going to say yes and it will be awesome.

I would just try to relax the worst she can say to you is that she isn't intrested... and if she does tell yourself it is her lose and move on to the next girl.

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Originally Posted by branbbllkd23

Well I'm 15 and i really want a GF because i havent had one in a while and its just soo hard for me because im soo self conscience about myself and the way I look. Everytime I'm about to attempt asking a girl out i get really nervous and choked up and i end up not doing it. So how do I ask ask a girl out without getting choked up and really nervous and getting the girl i want, instead of embarissing myself.:(

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If you meet the girl that you really feel a connection to, it will make you feel less nervous and anxious. And my advise for any relationship, is that you be friends first. If you want a relationship to last you have to like each other. Trying hanging out in groups with mutual friends, etc. This will help you get to know each other better.

Confidence will look good to anyone. Just walk up to a girl you're already familiar with, and say: "I'm going bowling Saturday with some friends, do you wanna go?"
Just make it as causal as possible... if she says no, then so what? Her loss, you'll find a better one.

OR, go out with friends and if you see a girl(s) you like, invite them to join you (walking around the mall, movie, bowling, mini golf, whatever!)
Good luck :)

Really good answers above!! I would first of all love myself. You have to be happy with who you are first in life. If girls see your OK with who you are it will probably make the whole situation go over much better. You are young don't let that stress you out so bad. Just be a teen and have fun with life. Those years go by too quick and you will miss them when they are gone.