OK well I'm over my X now thank you to those who help on my las questions. And now I want to be single for a while. I dotn want to be with anyone at all for the moment. But I do want someone to be able to go to and someone to be able to talk to and someone whose going to be there for me for anything. I do have best friends but they do have jobs and are busy sometimes and well its not there fault but they can't be there for me all the time because they have things to do. So yeah. I want someone my age to be my best friend. I want it to be a guy because I already have a girl best friend and its different because it's a girl. I want to be lose to a guy. But every guy who I try to get close to as a friend wants to have sex with me. . Its hard to find good friends now and days any advice?anything would help with this situation.

Hello.

It can be hard to keep friendship and relationships apart. The only way is to be honest from the start and don't let yourself cross the line. As long as you don't let them think its offered they shouldn't try to get it. If they do then they want you not your friendship so it's their loss not yours.

Dennis777

I think you expecting too much from others, and not enough from yourself. Learn to make yourself happy, and be more independent, and self sufficient. That dependency on others is not healthy, nor will it allow you to grow, and discover what your really about, and what you really want in life.