Confused.will he want me back.
Hi,
I had been dating this guy for 2 years. We both go to uni and met there. A few weeks ago he broke up with me suddenly and I wasn't expecting it. I was and still am completely hurt, shocked and devastated by it. I believe we were such a great couple and so do all my friends and his friends, they were all very shocked when they found out.
His reasons for doing so were
1. He doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore because we had had a few arguments and didn't have much to say to each to each other. (We r on are summer hols at the mo and I've been working everyday as has he. We hvnt had anything interesting to speak about on the phone apart from work.)
2. He feels we don't work well together and it has got to serious.
My response to these reasons were that relationships are not always happy and they do have down times (we were having a down time when he broke up with me) but things get better.
I didn't really understand the "we got to serious part", we arnt together all the time I have my own friends and he has his and we have NEVER discussed marriage and children and stuff!
Since he broke up with me we had NO contact for a week, then he contacted me. We spoke and he said he still thinks he has made the right descison. I suggested that we meet up to discuss it so we can talk about it face to face. He wasn't so sure on this idea but is thinking about it now. I feel its nessasary to see him... I don't know why, perhaps I want to see if seeing me would change his mind??
I love him and miss him so much and really don't know what to do. His friends say that they are optimistic that when we get back to uni he will miss me and want me back, but I don't know! We were meant to go on holiday together at the end of August but now I assume we are cancelling it. :(
Can anyone help, do I contact him? What's he thinking? Will he want me back?
Xx